What is a MIAM?

MIAM stands for Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting.

It is an initial meeting with a specially qualified family mediator to consider whether, and if so how, your issues can be resolved without going to court. The mediator will provide you with information about the options available for non-court resolution, including mediation, and discuss the advantages and disadvantages with you.

Before you can take your case to court it is a legal requirement (in most cases) to attend a MIAM. Your ex will usually be expected to attend a separate MIAM. Anything you each discuss with the mediator in these initial separate meetings will remain confidential, unless otherwise agreed.

Who leads the MIAM?

A MIAM must be run by an accredited family mediator. 

What happens at the MIAM?

A MIAM will usually last about an hour. It must be face to face but it can be in person or remote via a video call. 

At the meeting, your mediator will:

• Find out more about your situation and the issues you wish to address;
• Provide you with information about mediation and other forms of dispute resolution, including arbitration and the collaborative process;
• Assess the suitability of mediation to resolve the dispute;
• Assess whether you could receive funding to help towards the cost of the process;
• Assess whether there has been or there is a risk of domestic violence or harm to a child; and/or
• Signpost you to any relevant support, for example online information sources about issues arising on separation.

What happens after the MIAM?

If you and your ex agree to try mediation you can make an appointment for your first mediation session.

If you decide not to proceed with mediation or it is not suitable, then the mediator will need to sign the relevant court form to show you have thought about going to mediation. This will enable you to issue your application at court.

How much does a MIAM cost?

If you are eligible for legal aid, the MIAM will be free. Your mediator will be able talk to you about whether you qualify for legal aid.

The individual mediator sets the cost of the MIAM and some may provide it free of charge. You should ask the mediator about their charges before you arrange your meeting.

Mills & Reeve have a team of family mediators who can conduct MIAMs and work with you to help you resolve family disputes. Contact us for more information.

This blog has been updated on 3 February 2025.

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